We all want instant gratification. We have all forgotten about patience.
In today's fast-paced society where everything can be at our fingertips in seconds, waiting seems like such an outdated concept. Except that it's not. It's arguably one of the most important characteristics of a successful career and life. We can't get immediate results in the gym and we can't become successful overnight.
The most important things require patience.
So in light of that truth, maybe it's time we slow down and practice, patience. It is, after all, a necessity.
1. Start practising patience
The best way to practice patience is to make yourself wait. Sounds hard but it does pay off. A study published in Psychological Science shows that waiting for things actually makes us happier. Start with something small like waiting a few extra minutes to eat your breakfast or eating your dinner, then move on to something bigger. You will start to train yourself to be better at patience.
2. Remove from your day what isn't important
We all have things in our lives that take time away from what is important. So, one way to get more of what we want quicker is to remove the things that are not important. Take a few minutes and evaluate your week. Look at your schedule from the moment you wake up to when you sleep. Take out two or three things that are time wasting but take time. This can be anything from scrolling on social media to spending time worrying.
3. Know your triggers
Sometimes certain tasks can trigger our impatience. If we know we need to spend more time on something due to our lack of knowledge or skills we are more likely to get frustrated when it takes more time. It is better to be mindful of what makes us impatient. Write them down. This will help you deal with your impatience before it strikes you unexpectedly. Impatience is ok, it just means you really want something. Learn to accept it, deal with it and don't let it remove your focus from what is important.
Most of all, just stay calm and focus on your breathing. It sounds simple but it is often overlooked. Taking slow deep breaths can help calm the mind and body. This is the easiest way to help ease any impatient feelings you are immediately experiencing. If you want to take it a step further
If breathing doesn't help I find taking a walk to clear your head The point is to find some time for you each day to let go of all the frustrations.
Lifes frustrations have a way of creeping in on us without us realising. Give importance to your mental health. Give time to letting go of your stressors.